ABOUT ME
I understand what you’re going through because I’ve lived it.
I firmly believe that a coach can’t take you where they haven’t been themselves.
I began my journey by providing relationship and empowerment coaching to women across the world.
Then, many years ago, I found myself struggling in my relationship with a man who has kids.
He was an awesome partner in every way except for the drama his past decisions brought into my life. As the wheels started to come off in his co-parenting situation, I felt like my life was speeding toward a train wreck and there was nothing I could do. I even found myself secretly hoping he would do something bad so I could justify leaving him.
He never did.
I realized that I had to make sense of what was happening if I wanted our relationship to survive. I knew I wanted a future with him, but I sure as hell wasn’t about to settle for a life filled with that level of chaos.
My nervous system couldn’t take it much longer — I was at my breaking point.
We made a conscious decision as a team to do whatever it took to figure out how to contain the chaos and change the situation.
It took a tremendous amount of work to figure out how to create healthy, SUSTAINABLE change. I’m not talking about a few days or weeks of normalcy, then WHAM — another bomb drops, and our lives implode — again.
I committed to studying under the guidance of some of the best therapists, psychologists, life coaches, and high-conflict specialists.
Once Chris and I implemented foundational changes, we were finally able to walk through the healing process and begin to thrive.
Now I know it IS possible to move beyond a toxic co-parenting dynamic and create a peaceful life and happy relationship — because we’ve done it.
As far as my coaching practice, I had to come through the other side before I could get vulnerable enough to share my story — let alone coach women who are facing a similar traumatic experience.
I’ve condensed my knowledge and experience into this Freedom from Chaos Program — turning my years of studying, training and personal work into a coaching solution for my soul sisters who are struggling just like I was.
There IS light at the end of this tunnel.
I can show you the path there.
xoxo, 💖
Maiko